Here it is...

So good.
(aka Kent and Nellie Sommer)



Kent and I found ourselves watching this show the other day and while I was somewhat appalled at the mini glitz, I was glued to the program. Little girls in fancy dresses with hair pieces and caked on make up--who does that to their child at age 3? I know girls like to play dress up, but this might be overboard. Can beauty pageants at 5 years old be healthy?
Here's the thing, I really don't have a problem with pageants. If a girl wants to become Miss America, good for her. Everyone wants to accomplish something and if that's #1 on a young girl's list, great. At least she wants to do something with her life, and I actually think there are some positive aspects to pageants like developing good stage presence and confidence in the public eye. That being said, I think there are some severe drawbacks as well. The constant competition and all-consuming thoughts about body image. Not good. When a girl is older she can choose to be in a pageant, but these little girls are put there by their parents, more specifically their moms. My thoughts here, if the girl is having fun and enjoying what she is doing, that's fine, but when a 4 year old girl is stressed about receiving the next "Supreme Queen" or whatever it's called, that is wrong and mom needs to put her in ballet or on the local soccer team, normal little girl activities.
Anyway, I found this show interesting and I hope those girls realize pageants are just for fun. While crowns are rewarding, they're not everything.
The Menu.
Having nine people in our little house was doable and it was wonderful waking up to a house full of kids and family. Thanks for the visit, Nini and John!
Any idea who this baby is? It's not me and it's not Kent, but it is someone I love and respect. Here are a few hints: He built a car when he was 8 or 9, opened up a bicycle repair shop in his garage around the same time, put a jazz band together in high school, wanted to be a farmer or doctor when he grew up, graduated from Stanford Medical School, raised 10 children and started his own medical group. Any guesses?
The older I get, the more I realize that my dad is a fascinating individual. Here are just a few things I love about him:
-His intelligence: He gets it. He's a smart man who has learning down to a science.
-His work ethic: He sticks with things until they're complete or until he understands them. He's still working. I doubt he'll ever retire.
-His devotion to my mom: My dad loves my mom more than anything. He can't survive without her.
-His role as a father: Loves and takes pride in all of his children. Supported and cared for each one of us completely. He helped build my self-esteem when I needed it most.
-His generosity: Always willing to give of his time and means.
-His solid spirituality: I have never questioned my dad's testimony. He is solid and does what is right.
-He's a dreamer: If he thinks of something, he makes it happen. He's a business man in a doctor's body. He has always made me feel that my dreams can become a reality. I love that about him.
-He's health conscious: He eats well (he's the one that made our family switch to non-fat milk when I was about 10--sorry Kent) and exercises daily. I think I love this about him because it has helped me realize that those two things can help you live a better life.
-His positive nature: My dad is always optimistic. Really. It is a rare occasion to see him upset. Most often, you hear him whistling around the house.
-He is nonjudgmental: He doesn't judge anyone and is quick to forgive.
-He doesn't fear opportunity: My dad will do just about anything he gets an idea to do, or sees necessary. For instance, my mom and dad went to a reception for Mitt Romney when he was trying to become the Republican nominee for president. At the reception in Orange County, my dad asked Mitt if he'd like to have another reception at our house in Redlands. (You have to remember, my dad and Mitt had never talked before, they weren't friends.) Guess what happened about a month later? A breakfast for Mitt Romney at our house. His candor used to be embarrassing at times, but now I find it inspiring.

I can't say enough about my dad. The older I become, the more I love and appreciate everything he has done for me, my family and others. I am a lucky girl and I look forward to sharing many more years with him, getting to know the fabulous Bob West.