Tuesday, September 11, 2012

just can't enough

Of Win that is. I know I'm biased, but this boy is just getting cuter and cuter. I love his blond locks, blue eyes and creamy, pinky-white-buttery skin. And the personality that goes along with those things? So inviting.

19 mos.
34 inches (or 2.833 ft.)
25.6 lbs.
Our "healthy lean" boy
 







 

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

a dutch door

Dutch doors aren't just for the Dutch.


Someday when we buy our own home, I'm installing a Dutch door in so I can let the breeze in and call to my kids when it's time for dinner.

Easy enough, right?

Thursday, August 30, 2012

18++ months

Win is 19 months come September 1st, but I'm going to stick with his 18 month old self for this post. Here are a few things about Win lately:

-He is really independent. He wants to walk up and down the stairs by himself, climb up on furniture by himself, flush the toilet by himself, etc. He even says "self" when he wants to do something. The only thing I help him with is eating, which he CAN do by himself with his fingers and sort of with a fork and spoon, but sometimes I prefer to shovel as much as I can in.

-Eating time is often frustrating because he's getting picky, but he's managing to stay alive and keep a belly. As long as there are eggs, cheese and yogurt in the house we are okay.

-He is talking a lot these days and is a smart cookie. He knows his shapes and can say them. Oval was the first shape he recognized and said, but he knows and says circle, triangle, rectangle, square, star, heart and "x" (part of the Fisher-Price shape bucket). He is also starting to use little 2-3 word sentences like "Cars, Daddy?" It really is fascinating how he is able to communicate with us.

-Win is obsessed with cars. I think they've taken the place of balls at the moment. He could literally play with them for hours, just rolling them across the table. Kent has a guitar box in the bedroom and he took it out once to use as a ramp for Win's cars and now Win just goes into our room by himself and brings it out when he wants to play with it. He also tells me "this side" when he wants me to go on a certain side of the coffee table to play cars. Pretty funny. He also likes airplanes, helicopters (hot-doctors) and "huge" trucks. He even knows and says "RV" now. He just soaks up everything!

-He understands counting and numbers. He has two down pat, but often his counting goes like this, "one, two, four, seven...eight." Cracks me up and amazes me that he even gets the concept at such a young age. We count the stairs as we go up to our apartment so he should have 1-8 down soon. Maybe.

-He is also starting to recognize colors, especially when it comes to colors of cars. Everything was "blue car" for awhile, but now he's branching out a bit. He definitely knows the color blue though and if you ask him what color his eyes are he says "blue". He's amazing. He also knows orange pretty well. Red, green and yellow are tough for him, but he basically knows black, white and silver-you know, common car colors.

-He enjoys sitting on a wall just his size outside of our apartment to watch cars, trucks, motorcycles and other vehicles go by. He points out what they are each time they pass. It's adorable. He wants me to sit down by him and invites me by saying, "Mama?" He is constantly inviting me to do things with him with that little "Mama?" - I love it. He takes a turn and Mama takes a turn.

-His favorite song as of late is "The Wheels on the Bus". He especially enjoys mimicking the mama on the bus saying "shhh, shhh, shhh" and tries to sing the "all around town". He likes singing in general, but that's his favorite.

-He really likes Baby Einstein. "On the Go", "Number Nursery" and "Newton" are his favorites. He had a bad cold so I let him watch too much, but he does know what an "ocean liner" is now and points them out when we go to the beach.

-One bad habit he his picked up which is 100% the fault of his parents is saying "darn" when something undesired happens like a car falling of the table or a ball almost making it into a basket. He uses it correctly, but we don't want him to use it at all. Eek. It really is "darn" so it's harmless, but a 1 year old doesn't need to have that word in his vocabulary. It really makes us want to use our words carefully because Win is a little sponge.

-Win started nursery and is doing great. The first couple of times he cried when we left him, but I think he's enjoying the toys now and understands that we will be back to pick him up. He also cried a few times because we were some of the last parents to get him. I guess I need to stop chatting in halls now.

-I've noticed he doesn't really play with the kids yet, but he understands ownership. He is using "mine" now and understands if something is "Sammy's" or "Mommy's" or "ours". Every time we come back to our apartment he says "ours" like this is our apartment. I like the "ours" better than "mine" so I think I need to reinforce that.

-He also likes "new" things like wearing his "new" shoes or his "new" car.

-Win got a real haircut with Daddy this month and he did great. I think he was really stunned or something because he didn't cry he just sat there like a stone with a very serious look on his face the entire time. He looks very dashing now.

I could go on and on, but that's the Win update for now. I love that little boy. I want him to stay the same age forever, but he just gets better and better so I guess it's okay for him to move onto new stages. Here are some photos of the last month or so.



Monday, July 30, 2012

eat. sleep. repeat...here we go again.

I've already gone viral with this information (thank you, Facebook), but I thought I might as well make a post here as well. Sommer Baby #2 is coming! He/she is due January 4, 2013 and we are excited.

(Baby #2 is much bigger at this stage, but I don't have a photo. This was taken at 11 weeks and I'm now 17 weeks.)


It took three pregnancy tests to convince me I was actually pregnant-it just happened much easier than we expected. Win took some time, but not this one. Win and ? will be 23 months apart which I hope will be manageable. We were shooting for 2 years and we came pretty close.

So far the pregnancy has been good. I did not feel well the first trimester, but I never threw up or anything. Everything sounded disgusting though and I felt nauseous most of the time. Pretty normal, right? I feel much better now. I'd say the turning point came at about 14 1/2 weeks and I'm so grateful. I have more energy and I actually want to cook dinner for Win and Kent. Poor guys. I felt sick for three months, didn't they?

The second time around has gone much quicker than the first. I can't believe I'm just a couple of weeks away from being half way done. Is it like that with every child besides your first? The more kids you get the shorter 9 months feels? Currently, an independently-minded, busy toddler consumes all of my day except for a few brief hours in the afternoon and that's when I clean, work and occasionally nap. Not enough time to think about being pregnant. It's kind of nice.

Here's something that has been on my mind today though: How does one keep oneself feeling attractive during pregnancy? I'm not sure if anyone reads our blog anymore (I don't blame you, I'm a really infrequent blogger), but for those of you that do and who have had children or know anyone who has, what's your secret? I'm hitting that stage where my normal clothes are tighter-elastic waistbands and maternity clothes are right around the corner. To top that off I found a couple of dimples on the back of my leg. They are not cute there. Cute on the face, not on the back of the thigh. Anyway, just thought I'd see if you have any advice. I'm keeping up Zumba and running for as long as I can, but I just need some secrets. ANY secrets actually. I'm all ears.

That's it for now. Gender reveal is right around the corner so I know I'll probably be blogging then if not sooner. We've done so much this summer and it needs to be documented.

Here's to #2! See you in 2013.

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

nine-to-five nanny

Today Win and I went for a run and on our way home we went to the park to kick some balls around and blow a few bubbles. As we approached the play area I noticed a birthday party going on in the covered picnic area. First thought, "Oh, great. There are a billion kids here. I hope Win doesn't get sick." Second thing I noticed was that most of the moms were Hispanic. As I got closer I noticed most of  the children were white. (This is not uncommon, a lot of the "moms" I see at the park are nannies, this just happened to be a large nanny gathering because it was a birthday party and they all know each other.)

I started speaking with one of the moms (a biological mom) of two of the kids there and she told me that most of the ladies there were nannies. I had already figured that. As we continued talking she said that one of the little girls was having a birthday party. I thought that's sweet, but I also thought, that's strange that it is on a weekday with the nanny. Where are her parents? The lady told me that the girl's mom was going to "try to stop by" because she works. Huh?

Now, I understand people have to work, but I felt so sad for that little girl. And she was a little girl. The oldest child there was probably 3. Then it made me think how sad it is that the parents weren't there for that occasion and it made me wonder what kind of an impact it makes on children to not have a mom or dad to share special, fun times and momentous events. Let's be honest, there are a lot of those on a daily basis with young children. You don't want to miss those things. Ever. Why didn't they just throw the party on a weekend when they could be there?

I realize everyone has very different situations and views of parenting, but I came away thinking how grateful I am to be able to stay at home and raise Win. I am sure those nannies do a wonderful job loving, caring for and teaching those children day in and day out, but I am grateful that I get to be the one to love, care for and teach Win every day. It is exhausting at times and sometimes I wish I had the freedom to do what I want, when I want, but I waited a long time to be a mom and I want to help shape my child. I don't want someone else to do that. I know it takes a village to raise a child, but I want to be the chief. (Co-chief I guess. Kent is a pretty awesome partner and makes it possible for me to be a stay at home mom.)

What I'm trying to say is that I'm not a nine-to-five nanny and I'm grateful for that. I don't mind a babysitter here and there, in fact we need to get out more, and I relish nap time, but I'm grateful to be the principal care taker for Win and our future children. I may not make it to every soccer game or piano recital in the future, but I'm going to try my best to be there for my children around the clock. It's my job and it's a great one.

Besides, who wouldn't want to hang out with this little guy all day?

Love him.

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

"milking it" sommer style

Over Memorial Weekend, we joined the Sommer crew in Junction, UT for a fun-filled reunion at the Courthouse, a real courthouse turned gigantic house. The theme of the reunion: Milk It! And we did. Not literally, although we could have. There were hundreds of cows down the street that just stopped and stared at us when we approached.

We ate, played (Nerf war, kickball, Connect Four, etc.), hiked and sort of rested (one year old baby in a new environment with a stuffed nose...not much sleep going on). Awesome location and an amazing job by Paige and Eric (thank you!). They were in charge this year and it went off without a hitch. They even lit a fire with milk. Fantastical.

The Courthouse 


 

 

The Family Hike in Marysvale
(an old mining town at the foot of some hills)

 


Cute boys.


 Win's cousin, Massimo. They definitely look related.

 Massi, Paige, Win and Kent

 Grandpa Sommer and Massi


 Our nephew, Canon

 We made it to the waterfall! Win was freezing so we layered him up.

 Happy baby at the Courthouse.



"Milking it" one last time.

We had one last hurrah on our way home in Vegas where we played in the pool at the Westin with Matt and Laura's family. I didn't bring my camera to the pool so that part wasn't captured in images, but Win went on his first water slide with Daddy and enjoyed it.

Good, good times. We can't wait until the next reunion.

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

win's world at 15 months

 
Win's Words:
Bus
Baby
Ball
Basketball (pretty close to the real word)
Football (same as above)
Mole (points to them and says "mole")
Mama (uses mainly when tired or sad)
Daddy
Milk (the "m" is barely audible)
Water (wah-er)
Car
Doggie
Egg
No
Duck
Trash
Diaper
Bubble
Ouch
Whoa
Light
Apple
Yogurt (go-gurt)
Yum (um)
Grandma (ah-ma)
Gross
Fish
Hat
Hot
Balloon
Nova (no-na)
Night night (nigh-nigh)
Uh-oh
Oval
Hi
Bye

Animal sounds:
Horse
Cow
Pig
Dog
Cat
Owl
Bird (crow…caw, caw)
Chicken (sort of)
Monkey (with hand in armpit action)
Penguin (waddles...no sound)



 

Favorite things to do:

Run…away from us, up and down the hall, outside on the sidewalk, in the halls at church, anywhere. He trips here and there, but he gets up and starts going again.

He likes when we set up his bowling ball animals and he crashes into them at running speed and they all fall over.

He loves balls, and probably always will. He likes ones he can throw with one hand. He has decent aim and can throw pretty far. We’re impressed. He also kicks really well. We think he’s an athlete in the making.

He loves to read. He is especially fond of his race car book right now. He also likes Sandra Boynton books.

Win likes bath time with bubbles. We started using them after reading “Tubby.” I thought he would enjoy them and he does, but he was sort of hesitant about them at first. He would just stand in the bath, but now he requests them every time and actually sits.

He likes to say “hi” to everyone around him. We were sitting in the foyer outside of the chapel the other day and when sacrament was over, he sat on my lap and said “hi” to everyone who was walking out. He is a friendly kid.

Win loves Daddy. He is so happy when Kent gets home from work. It’s the signal that playtime has begun.

Win likes to go to the park and kick the ball on the basketball court. There’s a park right across the street so we try to go over once a day. He also likes to watch Kent and I shoot baskets. He wants to shoot baskets too, but gets frustrated because neither Kent nor I can get him high enough to do so.

He likes to watch sports on television. His current favorite is basketball.

He’s also really into his pacifier(s). We try to only give them to him at night, but sometimes he gets a hold of them at other times. He could suck on one all day if we let him. He enjoys throwing them out of his crib at night. He also likes it when we bite the handle eof the pacifier and pull it out then put it back in his mouth.

Likes to throw things away in the trash. I think we may have lost some toys that way.

He enjoys being tickled and tossed in the air. He especially likes being tickled under his neck and on his ribs.

He’s also really into playing on our bed. Maybe not the safest activity, but one of us is always supervising him. He loves it and I love when he spreads himself out on his back and relaxes-cracks me up.

Favorite foods:
Yogurt
Eggs
Milk with vanilla almond milk (it’s a good mix)
Grapes
Sweet potatoes
Muffins
Cheese

He has been picky lately and we think he is contemplating vegetarianism. Not sure why. Maybe the texture? Maybe PETA has been secretly communicating with him? We're not sure.



Win is at such a fun age. He’s smart and gets things. When we ask him to do something, he understands and does it (most of the time). Sometimes he gets frustrated when he can’t do things, but then he calms down and gets busy doing something else. I love when he’s tired and puts his little head down on my shoulder. So sweet. We don’t nurse anymore, but we do cuddle. He’s a sweet, smart boy and we are so grateful he is ours.